
Not too long ago, I worked at a small town newspaper. This meant that not only was I a writer-- I was photographer, copy editor, layout editor, phone girl, crazy public mediator and oh yeah, sometimes obituary writer.
While scanning on an eldery woman's obituary, I had a life changing moment.
Reading through, I read the bare bones of her life story, the list of grieving family members she was leaving behind, and the list of those long passed family members she had gone to meet.
At the end of this obit, however, when listing this woman's "impact" in this world and those around her, the most dazzling comment her family could think of was that she was a "wonderful house keeper."
I remember raising my eyebrow and thinking "that's IT? That's all you can think of that made Granny special?!?!"
At that moment I decided that I was going to live my life in a way so that when my family sits down to write their fond farewells, they can have a heck of a lot more to say than I cleaned the kitchen with the best of 'em.
Sure, the kitchen needs cleaning, especially when I've got stacks of collages mid-progress on the kitchen table and a scattering of cheerios on the floor. But there are more important things out there, and sometimes finishing the dishes can wait 45 minutes if its a beautiful day to go for a walk with your little one, or go follow that itch to paint even though there's laundry to be done. Life is too short. And it's not measured in laundry loads or quantity of Pinesol used. It's measured in the living!
So next time you get a wild hair to do something-- like take a class, start a painting, go on a trip, or explore somewhere new, don't let the small daily things stop you. Because they will always be there waiting for you. Your baby's childhood, your artistic passion, your creativity...those things have to be enjoyed while they're here. So enjoy it!~
As Tasha Tudor says:
"The gloom of the world is but a shadow; behind it, yet within reach, is joy. Take joy."
-- Fra Giovanni